Curt, that makes a lot of sense but the mindset is, but WHAT IF....... I want to take a vacation to grandmaw's house, in bugtussle oklahoma, although i never have in the last 30 years i've lived in Florida, but what if?

Im gunna NEED that 4000 mile range. I don't want to find myself LACKING!!!!! .... and that is why everyone wants the huge range.
The funny thing, batteries would last much much longer if they kept the charge between say 20 and 80 percent, instead of topping it off every night, or every few days. but people insist on that too, because. what if i decide tomorrow morning, im going to go to grandmaws house, i gotts be ready, i don't want to find myself LACKING!!
Your mindset makes perfect sense, or, ok so you want to go on a long trip, once a year, maybe twice, why not save 2000 a year and just rent a car/truck for the week/weekend when it's vacation time?
Out here, one of the Tesla stations is right next to the grocery store. You could put it by walmart or wherever. That way while you are spending your hour or 2 doing your shopping, the vehicle is charging, at a zero lost time spot for you.
Aaron