If you're talking about the cable in the picture, then that seller is lying. That cable is just like an extension cord with a J1772 plug at one end. There are no electronics, and no app can control electrical wires. Luckily, your charging system is not using the J1772 protocol , so you can use it like that.
Sorry, maybe I am giving half responses, leading to confusion. MY goal for this cable is to attach a NEMA 14-50 connector on end with the wires sticking out. I am thinking, since the diginow does not use the j1772 protocol like you said, that blue pilot wire is not needed at all. If I find a chargepoint or whatever-brand jplug station, great. There are gaps in the network though, and in those gaps are often multiple RV parks. This cable would really only be a backup in the event I cannot reach a public charging station. I have seen a j1772 to 14-50 cable (from the seller of the SR w/diginow) but he said it cost him around $500. I am on a bit tighter of a budget, so I was hoping this cheap (only in price, not in quality, if it is branded from chargepoint it should be quite robust, right?) cable could be modified to serve the same purpose.