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At work I share a charge cord with 2 other Zeros and it gets used every work day. It about a year old and I know its rated for our Zeros on-board. It is run on a long extension cord that is also rated for our power, FYI.
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My coworker has the FX and he said he is not experiencing the problem.
Even though the extension cord is "rated" for the power, it has resistance and makes the effective voltage the bike sees lower.
So the bike will pull additional current. That creates additional heat. it may be just enough to soften and wear the connector over time.
The FX wont see this problem as they use a charger half the size of the S models.
out of curiosity, how long is the cord? what gauge is the wire in it?
if you have a kill-a-watt or other meter, its probably worth the effort to see what the bike sees for voltage/current.