Well, I've built my box, and it's almost ready for testing. All I need is a 680 Ohm resistor, which somehow is nowhere to be found on my E24-reel
On the EVSE part it's a Mennekes 3-phase connector, connected to the box with 5x2,5+2x0,5 cable. The box then passes L1, N, PE and CP through to the J1772 connector on the other end. The box in between taps off L2/N/PE to the left C19 connector and L3/N/PE to the right C19 connector.
I also soldered the SBX connector to the battery cable (A slight overkill, with 16mm2) and began testing with the Arduino Leonardo CAN...
All that's missing now, is the flatpacks. And the resistor of course but I imagine that's easier to fix than the flatpacks
**Small update:
Checked the specs, and apparently the lower the value the more current is requested by the charger. 220 Ohm requests 32 amps, but the ppm duty cycle of the CP signal tells the charger how much it can actually charge. So I put two 120 Ohm resistors in serie that I had laying around, getting 240 Ohm. Best case it signals 32A which I'll never use on a single phase, worst case it takes one step lower at 20A which is enough for my max 4kW per phase...
I'll test as soon as I have time, which I seem to have less and less of these days...