Skull_Kid, I'm in a similar situation to you, as I had to drive more than 10 hours to pick up my bike from the closest dealer, and was really worried about getting a dud, but so far, so good. I did find a loose spoke on the rear wheel after a couple of rides, which seems to be stripped from the factory, it won't tighten. I've broken spokes on my other bikes while riding, but never had a stripped one.
I've only put a few hundred km's on my '15 FX, including trail riding, but haven't had a major problem yet(I recommend to definitely turn ABS off, for off-road!). The Showa suspension seems decent enough for casual trail riding. The only thing I don't really like is the small front brake disc, which is also noisy(it howls), which somewhat hampers the stealthability. The kick stand can get snagged on trail obstacles, so I've removed mine, but had to modify the switch harness so that I can still turn ABS off. I don't intend to push the FX as hard as my other bikes, but it's been great for being able to go places I can't go on a noisy bike. I also love the lack of maintenance needed!