On the other hand, I feel that a complete beginner with a $20k bike in LA traffic is a recipe for disaster
Living in LA you must hate traffic now not having had the ability to split lanes and be free from it yet. Get your motorcycle license and definitely get an electric motorcycle, so you don't have to use a clutch and shift in LA traffic. You may not want to split lanes at first and stop and go for twenty miles will be murder with a clutch.
But do you get a new Zero or a used one? I agree you will probably fall over once in your first year. Luckily the Zero's crash quite well and usually only the bar end gets scuffed on the left side and the brake lever bent on the right. This is thanks to the steering locks that prevent the plastics from touching the ground I guess. Since you're in LA I would stop by Hollywood Electrics at 901 N Fairfax in West Hollywood and see what he thinks. He might have a used 2013 or 2014 S to start on, or as long as it is insured, maybe just get the new one with ABS brakes. You never know when these might be the difference between injury or not. When I started riding I didn't have ABS as an option. I wish I had.
Now that I think about it. Get a 2015 Zero with ABS. Period.
There is no price you can put on your safety. And the ABS as a new rider in crazy LA traffic is worth it.
S or SR is up to you. I would recommend the S to start so you're not tempted to get yourself into too much trouble right away. The S is plenty fast on its own. Harlan from Hollywood Electrics can always upgrade it to an SR later.
Or get the SR and promise yourself you won't take it out of Eco mode for at least 2 months! Seriously! Not even to try it in a parking lot! (ok well maybe in an empty parking lot, but that's it!)
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