How would he know to have that respect though when the other 99 times he did it, it just whooshed forward?
If it's a 2021 model, which wasn't even revealed until mid-OCT this year, and they've already crashed it, had it repaired, and are back on the bike, they didn't have 99 other times to compare it to. This isn't "I rode this bike for a year of being predictable and it suddenly betrayed me" this is "I bought a brand new bike I don't understand and tried to immediately take it to the limit, and it bit me!" We don't even know if their tires were broken in!
My point is they pinned a bike they did not understand the dynamics of and was basically unfamiliar with.
I don't disagree with any of your points about how traction control is good. It is! More safety features are good! But buying a bike with an entirely different drivetrain than the bikes your used to, with a throttle that behaves differently than an ICE bike, with lots of torque, and no traction control, and then yanking on the throttle like you're trying to reach a redline is a recipe for disaster and a showing of complete lack of respect of the bike and its power.
Comparing street riding habits to professional moto-e riders who are by definition riding to the limits of the bike, in full gear, on a track, is irrelevant.
Fact of the matter is that the SR has a lot of torque and no TC. If you know that, and understand how traction works, you should be extremely careful with your throttle and learning the limits of the bike. In the simplest terms you have to retrain your brain to transfer all the nuance you had with your clutch + throttle + shifter into just throttle control.
If that's too much responsibility for you, yeah you probably shouldn't be buying a bike without TC. Good news, the SR/S and SR/F have it, so if it's important to you Zero has options for you. Energicas have TC as well.
I don't think its controversial to say you should understand the bike you're buying before you buy it. If TC is important to you, get a bike with it. If it isn't, and you get a bike without TC, you need to both have the skill to ride without TC and be prepared for the risk in the moments where your skill isn't enough. It's all managing knowledge, skill, and risk, like anything in motorcycling. You don't get onto two wheels without doing that, and you have to own the choices you make in that space.