And if the instructions on the station are wrong, well, they're just as wrong.
The problem is the instructions are on the charger itself, not the screen, so it doesn't get updates when the FW does. Such as the "Electrify America" CCS chargers which the instructions always say "plug in first". You should only do that when you want it NOT to work. At least on some of them in the past depending on its FW version.
What always works is to activate the machine via the Electrify America app while it is NOT plugged in to the vehicle. Then the charger FW version doesn't matter. At least that is my experience with them so far.
I prefer the ones that have their own card, such as EV-GO, ChargePoint, GreenLots and I think all the others. I think Electrify America is the only one that doesn't have a card. Not counting Tesla Superchargers which needs no card, it just reads the VIN number when connected and the charge is automatic to my Tesla account. The easiest of all to use and never had a problem, but I have only supercharged my Tesla a few times in the two years I have owned it.
-Don- Reno, NV