You can not parallel 2 J plugs whether its on the same phase or not. It's current sensing on each leg is so precise a 50 mA differential and the station will fault by EVSE requirement code. That's what at 240 volts was determined the maximum a 5 year old child touching the hood of a car where the charger wires are chaffed and touching the chassis could not have her muscles freeze so she could not pull away. I agree it's ridiculously low and that's why the standard Zero gets ground faults from some stations just using the Calex charger.
But with the superchargers there is no need to parallel J plugs anyway, you just run each plug to its own set of chargers. No need to try to solve something that isn't broken. But with this, there isn't any solving it anyway. You'd have to hack the code of the station to allow small spikes over 50 mA to get this to work without ground faulting
But there's also a 1 in 3 chance that the stations will have their frequency 1/180th of a second out of sync. or 120 degrees out.